One thing I’ve come to experience since meeting Cheryl is the power of positive thoughts.
From the outset I’ll be honest and say that I’ve never really put much thought into what I say in relation to my own self, much of it often times said in jest — however that is not reflected in what I say to and about others. I’m very aware and sensitive to others’ feelings and that is reflected in my everyday communication. That’s something I do pride myself on. Occasionally I have been known to have sad feelings about situations in which I find myself, and sometimes it’s felt like there was no way forward. I’m sure there would be examples of those times in postings on my blog — it did after all begin its life when I was living in the USA, so there’s quite a timeline involved there.
Cheryl on the other hand is full of positive thoughts and lives her life with those thoughts in mind. Through the time we have been developing our relationship, I’ve seen first-hand how this has affected outcomes for her. I think she would agree that I am learning to think better things about myself (right, darling?), and look toward a future of positivity within our relationship. At times, stuff that I might hear at work, or on a bus, or some other place where others are expressing themselves, brings me down a little — I’m constantly amazed and saddened at the levels that people will go to to bring others down.
I experienced some of that this week and on Friday night watched a video on youtube which I have saved in my “Inspirational” folder. I’m linking to it here, as I want to share what the presenter, Neil Pasricha, has to say about the power of positive thoughts — his blog 1000 Awesome Things savors life’s simple pleasures, from free refills to clean sheets. In this heartfelt talk from TEDxToronto, he reveals the 3 secrets (all starting with A) to leading a life that’s truly awesome (it’s 18 minutes in length).
There are so many wonderful blogs and websites out there that I read and reflect on. I’ll write some more about them in coming posts. For now I’ll end off as it is close to midnight and this body needs some rest. I’m positive about that. 
Beautiful words Kim…Cheryl has brought many wonderful things to your life besides Love…hang on tight and never let go. I am sure you have bought just as many beautiful things to her life….we each have our endearing and lovely qualities. How blessed you both are to have each other…Love to you both Jasmine xx
The power of our thoughts and our words is incredible! I recently blogged about the difference in using “when” versus “if”. I found that by saying “when” I commit myself to doing what I say I’m going to do and don’t leave an option for doubt. Thinking positive thoughts has a similar effect as well.